CARH Sharing (1)

From CARH, I learn some important messages:

Every child is precious and special and has its own destiny. Every child has its own personality, strength, talents , also their weaknesses, troubles and problems, overall to say every child is special and different. With this awareness, hence our guidance, support and love on them should be individual and different.

Children is perfect by nature because they are already perfect in the eyes of the Creator. Parents unable to change oneself but only thing they can do is to guide and support their children with love; Help them to face and overcome the challenges and problem in life with right methods and advices. The children will grow up their ways, be aware we might have interfered their growth if over protective.

Children learn through problems and troubles, it is a must go through process for healthy growing up. They learn:

• They learn to forgive when they are forgiven;
• They learn to be patience when desire is not being fulfilled or delayed;
• They learn to accept themselves by knowing that no one is perfect;
• They are not able to learn to be independent if everything is well prepared for them;
• Unless they face difficulties, they learn to be tougher and stronger;
• Unless they overcome the obstacles, they learn their value and pride;

Even they are rejected, they learn something, they learn to be Independence;I hope with this kind of awareness and knowledge, it reduce our nervousness and anxiety towards our children. Believe every child will face different challenges but even it is, they learn something out of it and it is necessary in the growing up stage.