I thought I could come home earlier today, who knew a last minute and urgent order held me back until 6.30pm. When I reached home, I saw lot of clothing pile high on the sofa, no dinner, a messy room... Then only I found out my mum is sick. So I have to start working again- cleaning the mess, bring my child to bath, mop the sticky floor......
Sometimes things just happen out of our control, but I start learning thru the process. I tell myself if we cannot calm our self, normally we will make things even worse. Like today, I have finished my work and about to go but things just happened not as per plan, the more I felt rush the more I couldn't concentrate, so I purposely slowed down my action, think where to seek the information first in order to complete the order.
When we are rushing about we tend to get angry easily, and thing just seems take longer time to resolve. So one of my self-improvement target this year is learning to be patience, self-control, slow down my action, knowing things will not getting worst than we thought , even it will get worst , we have to take it easy.
By saying so is not enough, practise and implement is just far more important. This is another way of positive thinking and I find myself be more competent when deal with whatever situations. To me, the most obvious improvement this year is the way I handle my job- it is no longer that stress then before. Situation or environment doesn't change, but the attitude and thinking change will make a different.
Sometimes things just happen out of our control, but I start learning thru the process. I tell myself if we cannot calm our self, normally we will make things even worse. Like today, I have finished my work and about to go but things just happened not as per plan, the more I felt rush the more I couldn't concentrate, so I purposely slowed down my action, think where to seek the information first in order to complete the order.
When we are rushing about we tend to get angry easily, and thing just seems take longer time to resolve. So one of my self-improvement target this year is learning to be patience, self-control, slow down my action, knowing things will not getting worst than we thought , even it will get worst , we have to take it easy.
By saying so is not enough, practise and implement is just far more important. This is another way of positive thinking and I find myself be more competent when deal with whatever situations. To me, the most obvious improvement this year is the way I handle my job- it is no longer that stress then before. Situation or environment doesn't change, but the attitude and thinking change will make a different.
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